Etiquette & FAQ

Fair question. I understand you want to ensure safety, accuracy, and enjoyment, so let me help put you at ease with some quick verification information.

The websites where you will find me require identity verification, including ID and photo verification, at the following sites: Onlyfans, Manyvids, Slixa, and Tryst. I am active on all these platforms. All of these websites have my same contact information, links, and website listed.

I’ve invested a lot into building my networks and reputation in the industry. I have worked with verifiable, professional photographers and fellow colleagues in-person, who are tagged and linked throughout my social media. Feel free to take a look at my Twitter and Instagram to get a sense of my presence within the broader community.

You can also find various user-submitted testimonials here on PrivateDelights.

Mutual respect, privacy, and discretion are essential.

Please be respectful when contacting me. Your inquiry will not be responded to if you are inappropriately lewd with your language, requesting a menu, or trying to negotiate my rate.

I correspond with clients on a secure encrypted server. If privacy & discretion are also your priority, I recommend you email me from an encrypted Protonmail email address. It should take under 2 minutes to sign up for a free account, and this ensures end-to-end encryption. I protect my clients information as if it were my own.

You will receive an appointment reminder via your preferred contact method the day before our appointment. Your communication preferences can be selected within my Booking Form. I am able to offer multiple methods for you to send me your deposit based on your discretion needs. If you are a notable figure, I am happy to sign an NDA if you provide it.

If you visit me, my incall is very relaxed and non-descript. If I visit you, I will dress very respectfully and suitable to the setting until we are behind closed doors.

In order for us to have the most seamless, steamy in-person connection possible, I like to know a bit about you before we meet. My Booking Form is a great template to get started! It is designed to give me the kind of introductory information I need to ensure we are compatible and can have the best experience together. Consider it your first impression.

If you’d rather not fill out my Booking Form, simply email the same required information to emmalumi@protonmail.ch.

Please try to book in advance to avoid disapointment. This allows time for screening, booking, and preparation. If we have already met before or you have been recently pre-screened, I am available for spontaneous dates when my schedule allows.

Looking forward to hearing from you!

Who are my clients?
I see people of varying ages, backgrounds and identities, looking to broaden their sensual and emotional horizons. I’m happy to see kind and respectful people of any legal age, sex, gender, background, body type or ability are welcome. Please let me know if you require anything in particular to make your appointment accessible and comfortable.

Please note I am low-volume therefore only see a limited amount of clients. If I feel we are not a good fit or that I cannot provide what you are looking for, I may decline the invitation to meet. I will refuse to see you if you are vulgar, rude, or otherwise cross boundaries – I can also immediately end a session without refund if this happens in-person. In order to be my client you must be consistently kind and respectful.

Couples
I enthusiastically enjoy the company of all genders and identities.
For many couples, bringing a third person to join you privately can be an exciting experience that indulges your fantasies and creates lasting memories. Through correspondence we can establish what you are looking for, your comfort level, and about your relationship. I like to correspond with both parties so that everyone is able to have the most pleasurable experience possible. Screening is required for both parties.

My Friends
I have a select handful of friends I am happy to bring along to join us. I may also be open to friend requests if you have somone in mind. Consideration is my time + theirs, which can be discussed during booking.

Health and Safety
Consent and mutual respect are absolutely necessary during our time together.

I am health-conscious and believe our collective health is paramount. I am active in keeping up good health and I encourage all of my friends to seek regular check-ups as well. I will not put you at risk and I expect the same courtesy.

Please do not reserve time with me if you have cold symptoms, a skin condition, or any other illness that could be passed along. Cancellation options can be discussed if this is the case. Awareness and mutual responsibility in harm reduction practices will minimize risk and contribute to the greater good. Conscious, courteous, and consensual connections – always.

My incall is kept clean and commonly touched surfaces are disinfected regularly. I require hand sanitzing upon arrival, however face masks aren’t required in session. Please let me know if you would like me to wear one (or any other precaution) and I would be happy to do that.

I provide a judgement-free, consensual, and risk-informed dynamic to explore and engage in fetish and kink (me as Top/Dominant). I am open minded, experienced, and consider many fetishes, kinks, power exchanges, and roleplay.

Kink and Fetish can be enjoyed as the focus of our session, or it can be combined with varying amounts of companionship. Depending on what you’re interested in, an added fee may apply. View my Kink page for all the details before inquiring, and complete my specific Kink Booking Form at the bottom of the kink page when you’re ready to reach out.

I protect my time, earnings, and safety by using deposits and various methods of screening, at my discretion. This allows me to commit fully to my sessions in advance, knowing that they are firmly fixed in both our schedules and that our date will be going ahead.

Screening
All new clients must be identity-verified. Methods I accept are government-issued photo ID, phone number/email, and workplace verification. My Booking Form outlines the requirements and assets.

Deposits
All dates require a minimum deposit of 20% to secure our appointment, which is then deducted from the session total. Deposits are preferably accepted through electronic transfer or a gift card of my choice, through a discreet email address. Please note that I incur expenses and decline other commitments when I book a session with you, therefore all deposits are not refundable. The exception being in the unlikely event I were to need to cancel on you, where the deposit can be returned or transfered to a rescheduled session.

Cancellations
I understand things come up. Should you need to cancel, please try to do so with a minimum of 48 hours notice whenever possible, calculated from regular waking hours.

The result of cancelling depends on the amount of notice given. Results range from putting your deposit towards our next meeting, requiring a new deposit to rebook, or requiring a cancellation fee equal to or less than the session total in order to remain in good standing.

Lateness
Please try your best to arrive on time. This includes being early or late. It will be fine if you’re fashionably late – just be aware that our session will not be extended beyond our booked time as a result, unless a further donation is negotiated. Please plan accordingly and let me know as soon as possible if there are delays. A phone number will be provided to you to text when you’re nearby or running late. If excessive lateness results in not being able to accomodate you, my full rate will still be required.

Thank you for understanding.

Rate
My rate should be prepared beforehand, in an unsealed envelope if possible.

Preparation
I ask that you bring minimal belongings into the incall. All hygenic and sensual materials are provided. Come prepared with trimmed fingernails and good hygiene. Body hair is perfectly welcome. A shower, toiletries, and mouthwash is available for your use at the incall. Do not floss. I am scent-sensitive, therefore strongly scented colognes or deodorants should be avoided or used sparingly. Please let me know if you have any allergies/sensitivities to scents, pets, food, or drink.

Feeling nervous
That feeling is completely normal and likely to fade after we break the ice. Please find reassurance in knowing that I’d like you to come as you are and be your authentic self. I aim to foster dynamics that are compassionate, judgement-free, and emotionally freeing. If you’re feeling any particular way before/during/after a session, please let me know as it can be helpful for me to know these things. Do try to arrive with an open mind and be optimistic to a new experience. This is your time to unwind.

Gifts and Tips
Neither are required or expected, though they are always appreciated, so I have put together a list to help with ideas. You can find it here!

You’re welcome to bring treats or drinks to our date; I simply ask that they are previously unopened and sealed if you wish to offer it to me.

Can I bring anything else with me?
I ask that you do not bring any illegal substances into any space I share with you. I do not see clients who are intoxicated or who become intoxicated in-session, or who possess illegal substances in my presence. Although I do not judge those who partake in using illegal substances, I cannot accept the risk that you inevitably cause me when you do this in my presence. Thank you.

We’ll be in touch through text shortly before arriving, just ping me when you’re here and I’ll welcome you in, or vice-versa!

After we exchange friendly introductions and get you so fresh and so clean in the washroom – I’ll offer you a refreshment and an opportunity to get cozy with me.

The envelope: Before you go to freshen up, please remember to place my rate on a table or nearby surface in my clear view. Please do not disrupt the mood by mentioning it outloud or requiring me to ask. I’ll tend to it while you’re washing up. If meeting in public, I ask that you present it to me in a gift bag or card within 5 minutes of meeting.

Freshening up: Wash your hands well, with soap, being sure to clean under your trimmed fingernails. Keep soap on your hands for atleast 20 seconds before rinsing. Use the mouthwash provided to freshen breath if needed. Do not floss.

Showering: Showering upon arrival is mandatory and toiletries are provided. Arrive with clean hair or wash your hair while showering. Afterwards, please leave your clothing and all belongings in the washroom. Simply come out in the provided towel or robe to join me!

I love hearing about your post-session afterglow – and keeping it at that until our next date. Feel free to send me private words of appreciation after our visit! Just keep messages between dates discreet and manageable in quantity. If you’d like to keep in touch more regularly, do inquire about my texting services, fanclub subscription, or virtual companionship.

Review Policy
You can find a handful of published reviews, here. I am no longer accepting new reviews. I do not want our private time discussed in public or private forums unless given prior permission. I am private about our time together and expect the same in return. If you enjoyed our time together, I would be happy for you to let me know privately.

References
I am reference-friendly. If we’ve met a couple times within the last year, I am happy to provide an honest reference for you if another provider requires one. Just ask me and give me a heads up beforehand.

The digital and virtual realms are fun and accessible! Just be mindful it’s based in fantasy and not necessarily a reflection of what my in-person companionship is like. Thanks.

Digital Content

• Join my fanclub for immediate access to hundreds of photos and clips, here.
• Find my full-length videos, photosets, personal items, and merch here.
• Fetish and Kink content can be found here.
• Email me to inquire for custom videos/photos/audio clips.

Texting
Texting services include friendly and/or intimate chatting.

* Items marked with an asterisk indicate the session must be pre-booked. Book your session through email or via my Booking Form.

Live Videochat // Virtual Date

A Social Flirt
A friendly videochat session.
Let’s chat and get to know eachother, along with some fun flirtations.

Sensual / Intimate
An intimate videochat session.
For those who crave a deliciously arousing experience.
Screening is required.

Snapchat
Friendly or Intimate one-on-one sessions.
A mix of live messaging and live video snaps.

Prefer to be a voyeur?
My Snapchat Story includes friendly and intimate content.

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Ready to book your chosen activity?
Book by emailing emmalumi@protonmail.ch or via my Booking Form.

Interested in something not listed here? Simply get in touch and let me know what you’d like. Fill out my Booking Form or email your inquiry to emmalumi@protonmail.ch